>>160524yeh i know, and it may seem especially daunting to monolingual anglos who have no experience in language learning. or even if, it's usually in something an order of magnirtude easier for europeans to learn like spanish or german or something
but was just thinking that liking asian women being such a core part of someone's identity should give them enough motivation and drive to get thru it. still not easy but the reward is there and so drastically expands ur dating pool
>>160527calgary changed to mandarin after jap was too daunting and not professionally useful enough. tho still a lot of work
if u ever do any of them, u'll be thinking why did u not do it a decade earlier. that's bit how i feel when only now putting in bit more effort