>>293435Dunno, I really dislike reddit and it sucks that Google seems to trust it far more than all the academia. Any way, it is perfectly reasonable to demand more calls from someone if you feel like you should receive some more. Yes, there are individual differences, but why shouldnt be your differences respected? It is just an rhetorical game, people like games like dat. So, no, I dont believe that time is that important, but I do believe that people come to negotiate implicit rules of communication one way or another, through symbols and learning, and then when they do they adjust it by rediscovery and relearning of symbols. So, yeah, in communication there is no winner neither there is a loser, no one single to blame either and no one single who is wrong. Either both parties are wrong or neither. The human condition, the proverbial "human nature", is vagueness and no one can deny it. This vaguesness is infinite in depth, like a bottomless pit, and in it we find shards of meaning that we put together in hopes that our broken kaleidoscope gives us more confidence in doing watever we want to do. So, I dunno. If I call and I get told that the call will be returned at later point, but it wasnt, all Im ready to do is to accept that this guy who said one thing and did other aint sh*t and no amount justification, internalization, gonna convince me of other wise. No amount of learning about society, culture, of expected behaviour, of yes means no situations gonna change my stance that it is a lie to say one thing and do other, no matter if I understand that it would be the case, there is no excuse for lying such openly and such uncovertly. That is all Im gonna say, humans can internalize every thing, they are adept at this, I will not do more than the act itself to convince someone to talk to me, because if there needs be convincing, it is all for naught already. All I can give is a call, for multitude of reasons, yes Im very private and dont like to talk about myself in most important things. I believe that Im right in this, or, that my line of rhetoric is good, and if Im to be proved incorrect, well, thats because it is not easy to know wat do I even mean, it is not easy to know wat the implicit rules Im going to follow. And this has right to live, too
Dunno, humans just irrational. Though, there isnt one in particular that I loved like dat so dunno. But I
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