>>189001>from what i can realize is most important thing to get hoes is being SMART.Being smart is important, but I'd say the first thing you gotta achieve is being interesting (without sounding like a retard)
Interesting means sharing something the girl likes or thinks is cool, otherwise the conversation is dead from the get go.
Still some hobbies (eg guitar dance gardening cooking) are more interesting than others (videogames, finnish meme lore, gambling, drinking).
Gymbros may seem intimidating, pretentious and boring to some women. Okay fair enough it is wrong to say it is useless, just that artsier hobbies are safer.
>then comes looks and personality, and money ofcyep
yeah okay being smart also works, but as long as you are smart(er) than the girl you're fine. Also this is something you (they) can't always tell from the get go so there you have it lol